{"id":725,"date":"2020-12-21T19:24:57","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T19:24:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/?p=725"},"modified":"2020-12-21T19:33:30","modified_gmt":"2020-12-21T19:33:30","slug":"cum-am-observat-ca-sunt-utilizate-in-jurul-nostru-conventiile-sociale-care-indica-respectul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/index.php\/2020\/12\/21\/cum-am-observat-ca-sunt-utilizate-in-jurul-nostru-conventiile-sociale-care-indica-respectul\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum am observat c\u0103 sunt utilizate \u00een jurul nostru conven\u021biile sociale care indic\u0103 respectul"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u00a0\u00a0 Da, respectul… Ne place s\u0103 \u00eel primim \u0219i \u00eel privim ca pe un lucru bun. Culmea, este \u0219i la mod\u0103. Se vorbe\u0219te peste tot despre el. Asta de\u0219i pare o no\u021biune din batr\u00e2ni. Dar adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 respectul nu se demodeaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103. Are \u0219i valoare de slogan.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Cum \u00een\u021belegem noi respectul \u00een societatea \u00een care tr\u0103im? Cum alegem \u00eencotro s\u0103 \u00eendrept\u0103m acest frumos sentiment? Care sunt criteriile care ne fac s\u0103 respect\u0103m o persoan\u0103, o anumit\u0103 ac\u021biune, un anumit mod de g\u00e2ndire? P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, ce consider\u0103m noi c\u0103 este demn de admira\u021bie? Uite ce am observat eu.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, este cutuma veche, tradi\u021bional\u0103, a respectului fa\u021b\u0103 de oamenii \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. V\u00e2rsta este probabil primul criteriu care aduce dup\u0103 sine aplicarea normelor sociale care indic\u0103 respectul. Este u\u0219or de observat dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m \u00een jur, mai ales c\u0103 limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 utilizeaz\u0103 pronumele de polite\u021be. O persoan\u0103 v\u00e2rstnic\u0103 este automat \u201ddumneavoastr\u0103\u201d. Dac\u0103 ai de-a face cu o persoan\u0103 de v\u00e2rst\u0103 egal\u0103 sau mai mic\u0103 dec\u00e2t a ta, chiar \u0219i necunoscut\u0103, adresarea devine \u201dSun\u0103-m\u0103 dup\u0103 7, pa\u201d. Departe de mine g\u00e2ndul s\u0103 critic respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de oamenii \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. Remarc doar c\u0103 acord\u0103m respect unui simplu num\u0103r, fiindc\u0103 se poate observa zilnic, foarte u\u0219or, c\u0103 v\u00e2rsta \u00een sine nu aduce nici bun\u0103-cuviin\u021b\u0103, nici \u00een\u021belepciune, dac\u0103 nu este ajutat\u0103 \u0219i de alte calit\u0103\u021bi. Exemple sunt nenum\u0103rate.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Mai respect\u0103m, din c\u00e2te se pare, func\u021bia. \u0218i nu oricum, ci mai ales atunci c\u00e2nd ea aduce persoana cealalt\u0103 \u00eentr-o pozi\u021bie dominant\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de noi. Ne exprim\u0103m cu \u201ddomnule doctor\u201d, \u201ddomnule profesor\u201d, chiar dac\u0103 interlocutorul este cu 25 de ani mai t\u00e2n\u0103r – deci nu este vorba de v\u00e2rst\u0103. Interesant este c\u0103, de exemplu, \u201ddomnul profesor\u201d pierde de multe ori accesul la pronumele de polite\u021be c\u00e2nd iese din contextul mediului educa\u021bional, chiar \u0219i dac\u0103 s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 ar avea o plac\u0103 at\u00e2rnat\u0103 de g\u00e2t cu titlul \u0219tiin\u021bific \u0219i func\u021bia. Din nou, nu spun c\u0103 e ok sau nu, doar remarc faptul c\u0103 acord\u0103m respect cuiva \u00een fun\u021bie de locul \u00een care se afl\u0103 sau de func\u021bia pe care o ocup\u0103. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, \u201ddomnul primar\u201d p\u0103streaz\u0103 eticheta seniorial\u0103 \u0219i dac\u0103 este pe c\u00e2mp, indiferent de personajul aflat \u00een spatele func\u021biei.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Banii. Bine\u00een\u021beles, banii. Era sa uit, \u0219i \u00eemi luam un potop de \u00eenjur\u0103turi. Banii aduc, bine\u00eenteles, respectul. Direct propor\u021bional cu sumele de care dispui. Intr\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00een zdren\u021be undeva \u0219i maximum de considera\u021bie pe care o sa o prime\u0219ti ar fi un \u201dd\u0103-te mai a\u0219a, c\u0103 murd\u0103re\u0219ti peretele\u201d. Ma rog, probabil c\u0103 vei fi dat afar\u0103, de fapt. Scoate un teanc de bani din buzunar \u0219i prive\u0219te!, brusc se face lumin\u0103. <\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Ar mai fi \u0219i alte exemple de aspecte care atrag respectul \u00een ziua de azi. Nu scriu \u00eens\u0103 aceste r\u00e2nduri ca s\u0103 critic comportamentele sociale expuse mai sus – nu c\u0103 nu a\u0219 putea… \u00cens\u0103, deocamdat\u0103, \u00eentreb doar dac\u0103 nu cumva, c\u00e2teodat\u0103, direc\u021bion\u0103m gre\u0219it aceste semne de respect, aceste conven\u021bii sociale care arat\u0103 admira\u021bia. Sau poate le direc\u021bion\u0103m chiar ipocrit, conform intereselor noastre de moment. Nu am v\u0103zut dec\u00e2t mult prea rar semne de respect acordate unor calit\u0103\u021bi sau realiz\u0103ri \u00een sine. Respect pentru nivelul de educa\u021bie, pentru performan\u021bele \u00een carier\u0103, pentru servicii aduse societ\u0103\u021bii Exist\u0103, dar parc\u0103 sunt \u00eengropate printre celelalte situa\u021bii \u0219i nu prea se v\u0103d. <\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Respectul este o recunoa\u0219tere a valorii. S\u0103 acorzi respectul t\u0103u cuiva este unul dintre cele mai pre\u021bioase lucruri pe care le ai de oferit. A\u0219 zice s\u0103 nu \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim respectul a\u0219a de frivol. \u0218i, mai ales, s\u0103 nu \u00eel utiliz\u0103m ca instrument. Trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei respect\u0103m pe to\u021bi cei din jurul nostru. Le dator\u0103m, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, respectul cuvenit oric\u0103rui om. Dincolo de asta, calit\u0103\u021bile si valorile adev\u0103rate sunt cele c\u0103tre care eu cred c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 canaliz\u0103m respectul nostru. Pentru c\u0103 ele se hr\u0103nesc din respect \u0219i far\u0103 el, dispar. Dup\u0103 aia ne mir\u0103m c\u0103 suntem \u00eenconjura\u021bi de non-valori.<\/p>

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