{"id":740,"date":"2020-12-21T23:16:33","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T23:16:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/?p=740"},"modified":"2020-12-21T23:22:03","modified_gmt":"2020-12-21T23:22:03","slug":"dar-ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-exprimam-recunostinta-fata-de-profesori-prin-respect-si-cam-atat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/index.php\/2020\/12\/21\/dar-ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-exprimam-recunostinta-fata-de-profesori-prin-respect-si-cam-atat\/","title":{"rendered":"Dar ce-ar fi s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m recunostin\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de profesori prin respect? \u0218i cam at\u00e2t?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u00a0\u00a0 Periodic imi tot apare \u00een cale o problem\u0103 care a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 enerveze. \u00cen general, \u00eencepe s\u0103 se plimbe prin jurul meu c\u00e2nd vine c\u00e2te o s\u0103rb\u0103toare. Haide\u021bi s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m recono\u0219tin\u021ba pentru dasc\u0103lii copiilor no\u0219tri printr-un cadou! cade propunerea. Ve\u0219nic, implacabil, previzibil ca tic-tac-ul ceasului. Am copii la scoal\u0103 \u0219i deja, de ani de zile, chestia asta face parte din tematica \u0219i atmosfera s\u0103rb\u0103torilor.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Nu propunerea \u00een sine m\u0103 scoate din pepeni. Nu imi place, \u0219i dac\u0103 ar fi dupa mine, este un fenomen pe care l-a\u0219 vrea disp\u0103rut. Dar tot \u00een perioada asta apar polemicile pe subiect. Revolta unora care nu \u00een\u021beleg defel aceast\u0103 practic\u0103. \u0218i replicile date de profesori sau p\u0103rin\u021bi care sunt de acord cu treaba asta.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Eu, ca p\u0103rinte, nu am ini\u021biat niciodat\u0103 o asemenea tov\u0103r\u0103\u0219ie \u00eentru cadouri. La fel de adev\u0103rat este c\u0103 \u00een 90% din cazuri am participat f\u0103r\u0103 nici un fel de obiec\u021bie la asemenea ac\u021biuni. \u0218i atunci, ce am de comentat? Pai am, pentru c\u0103 unii se indigneaz\u0103<\/a> de atacurile la adresa acestor obiceiuri pline de bun\u0103tate \u0219i magie a s\u0103rb\u0103torilor.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Ca s\u0103 clarific. Eu, personal, nu a\u0219 propune niciodat\u0103 un asemenea lucru. Hai s\u0103 \u00eei facem un cadou profesorului \/ \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarei \/ directoarei, etc. Nu a\u0219 face asta din principiu, nu pentru c\u0103 n-ar merita sau nu ar fi frumos. Pur \u0219i simplu contravine principiilor mele. Dar \u00eei \u00een\u021beleg, \u00een general, pe p\u0103rin\u021bii care fac acest lucru. Repet, de\u0219i din perspectiva mea nu mi se pare ok. Dar nu am preten\u021bia s\u0103 aib\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea acela\u0219i punct de vedere ca \u0219i mine. Din punctul de vedere al cadrului didactic \u00eens\u0103 este altceva. P\u0103rin\u021bii sunt de toate felurile, cu toate tipologiile de g\u00e2ndire posibile. Tu, profesorul, e\u0219ti numitorul comun. Tu trebuie s\u0103 fii factorul de echilibru, moderatorul interac\u021biunii \u00eentre copii \u0219i \u00eentre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u00een probleme legate de \u0219coal\u0103. \u0218i tu, profesor, dasc\u0103l, om de cultur\u0103 \u0219i de \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103, intelectual, parte a elitei societ\u0103\u021bii, te \u00eentrebi ce nu este \u00een regul\u0103 cu practica asta de a primi cadouri de la p\u0103rin\u021bi?<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 P\u0103i hai s\u0103 ne l\u0103murim. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, pentru c\u0103 un asemenea cadou este interpretabil. Cum, un aranjament floral este interpretabil? Ok, s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 nu – de\u0219i, de multe ori, lucrurile nu se opresc la un aranjament floral. Vine un p\u0103rinte cu propunerea. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 nu este vorba dec\u00e2t de ni\u0219te flori. Se hot\u0103r\u0103\u0219te o sum\u0103, care se \u00eemparte la num\u0103rul celor care particip\u0103. Aici apar problemele. \u00cen discu\u021biile \u00eentre p\u0103rin\u021bi apare textul \u201dcine e de acord, cine vrea, etc.\u201d. E, \u0219i dac\u0103 unul spune c\u0103 nu cotizeaz\u0103? Poate din principiu, poate nu i se pare corect. Poate nu are. Aici e buba mare. POATE NU ARE. Zice\u021bi ca totul r\u0103m\u00e2ne a\u0219a, lini\u0219tit? Cel mai probabil nu, v\u0103 spun eu, din proprie experien\u021b\u0103. \u0218i am trecut deja prin vreo opt colective de p\u0103rin\u021bi. C\u00e2nd vine unul \u0219i spune c\u0103 el nu cotizeaz\u0103, ceilal\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi de multe ori vor bomb\u0103ni printre din\u021bi. \u0218i asta e varianta cea mai ok. Trecem si peste asta. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 un p\u0103rinte nu cotizeaz\u0103, \u0219i ceilal\u021bi nu au nimic de obiectat. Crede\u021bi c\u0103 p\u0103rintele care sparge ga\u0219ca se simte \u00een largul lui? Oare nu \u00eesi face g\u00e2nduri c\u0103 ar fi dat \u0219i el, dar n-are? Poate chiar \u00ee\u0219i rupe de la gur\u0103 ca s\u0103 contribuie. Sau nu i se pare un lucru corect, \u0219i se zbate \u00eentre principiu \u0219i dorin\u021ba de a fi \u00een r\u00e2nd cu lumea. Oricum o d\u0103m, nu e nici bine, nici confortabil. <\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Merit\u0103 toate zbaterile astea ca s\u0103 \u00eeti prime\u0219ti tu, profesore, floricica \u0219i mica bucurie de s\u0103rb\u0103tori? Voca\u021bia ta de dasc\u0103l nu \u021bi-ar aduce destul\u0103 bucurie dac\u0103 \u021bi-ar dedica elevii o poezie, un c\u00e2ntec sau dac\u0103 \u021bi-ar compune o scrisoare de s\u0103rb\u0103tori? Ai nevoie de mul\u021bumiri sub form\u0103 material\u0103? Tactul t\u0103u de profesor, \u00een\u021belepciunea anilor petrecu\u021bi la catedr\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi spun, oare, c\u0103 ar fi mai bine s\u0103 \u00eei rogi pe p\u0103rin\u021bi la prima \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi fac\u0103 nici un fel de cadou? Nu te-ai sim\u021bi mai bine \u0219tiind c\u0103 ai evitat astfel s\u0103 fii, indirect, cauza unor dispute, nemul\u021bumiri sau situa\u021bii poten\u021bial penibile? Chiar at\u00e2t de mult\u0103 nevoie ai de cadourile astea? P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, \u00ee\u021bi faci doar datoria. Nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Ah, era s\u0103 uit. \u0218i toate astea \u00een condi\u021biile unei societ\u0103\u021bi cu corup\u021bie endemic\u0103, cu lipsuri mari la capitolul educa\u021bie \u0219i cu o mentalitate deficitar\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bia cu persoanele aflate \u00een pozi\u021bii de autoritate.<\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 Nu vreau s\u0103 condamn pe nimeni prin aceste r\u00e2nduri. Am cunoscut multe cadre didactice pe care le respect enorm \u0219i care primesc cu bucurie aceste cadouri. Chiar le v\u0103d ca pe o dovad\u0103 de mul\u021bumire \u0219i apreciere din partea p\u0103rin\u021bilor. La mine nu este cazul, pentru c\u0103 la nivel universitar p\u0103rin\u021bii nu prea apar \u00een peisaj, dar \u0219i pe mine m-ar bucura un asemnea gest. L-a\u0219 refuza, \u00eens\u0103, din principiu. Nu zic, nu po\u021bi refuza un copil care vine cu o floare. \u00cens\u0103 mai mult dec\u0103t at\u00e2t, \u00een condi\u021biile din societatea noastr\u0103, poate c\u0103 ar fi bine s\u0103 evit\u0103m. <\/p>

\u00a0\u00a0 A\u0219a cum am spus, consider c\u0103 aceste obiceiuri trebuie s\u0103 dispar\u0103. Si cred c\u0103 asta trebuie s\u0103 porneasc\u0103 de la profesori. Dincolo de asta, \u00eens\u0103, dac\u0103 mai \u0219i vociferezi ap\u0103r\u00e2nd fenomenul ca pe un drept al t\u0103u, ca dasc\u0103l, atunci asta este insolen\u021b\u0103 cu ignoran\u021b\u0103 pres\u0103rat\u0103 pe deasupra.<\/p>

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