{"id":761,"date":"2021-02-17T06:19:12","date_gmt":"2021-02-17T06:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/?p=761"},"modified":"2021-02-18T08:03:27","modified_gmt":"2021-02-18T08:03:27","slug":"cum-incercam-sa-ne-disculpam-cu-orice-pret-indiferent-de-ce-prostie-am-facut-editia-la-volan-asezonata-cu-putin-santaj-feminist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/index.php\/2021\/02\/17\/cum-incercam-sa-ne-disculpam-cu-orice-pret-indiferent-de-ce-prostie-am-facut-editia-la-volan-asezonata-cu-putin-santaj-feminist\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum incercam sa ne disculpam cu orice pret, indiferent de ce prostie am facut. Editia &#8220;la volan&#8221;, asezonat\u0103 cu pu\u021bin \u0219antaj feminist"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"761\" class=\"elementor elementor-761\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-dde9673 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"dde9673\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8d250e1\" data-id=\"8d250e1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c74aeb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4c74aeb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Am avut ast\u0103zi de diminea\u021b\u0103 un mic incident \u00een trafic cu o doamn\u0103. \u00cen discu\u021bia ce a urmat a avut cel pu\u021bin dou\u0103 replici la care era s\u0103 \u00eemi \u00eenghit masca, a\u0219a c\u0103 m-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 v\u0103 povestesc toat\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplarea.<\/p><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Mergeam eu lini\u0219tit spre facultate, cu reveria aceea a dimine\u021bii, c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 nu te-a prins agita\u021bia din timpul zilei. Intersec\u021bie, trei benzi pe sens, una pentru \u201dla st\u00e2nga\u201d, dou\u0103 benzi pentru direc\u021bia \u00eenainte. Eu pe banda din mijloc, doamna care mi-a fost partener\u0103 \u00eentru schimbul de idei de ast\u0103zi pe banda din st\u00e2nga. \u00cen mijlocul intersec\u021biei doamna, care era cam cu o lungime de ma\u0219in\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba mea, \u00ee\u0219i aduce aminte c\u0103 ar vrea totu\u0219i s\u0103 mearg\u0103 \u00eenainte. Si cum era pe banda din st\u00e2nga \u0219i se formase deja coada de ma\u0219ini acolo, se suie pe mine. A\u0219a c\u0103 ne-am pupat oglinzile, frumos, civilizat, ca dou\u0103 ma\u0219ini care se \u00eent\u00e2lnesc dis-de-diminea\u021b\u0103 \u0219i ar da m\u00e2na ca s\u0103 se salute, dar nu au m\u00e2ini, s\u0103racele&#8230;<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Acum, sa nu crede\u021bi c\u0103 eu \u00eemi \u021bin ma\u0219inile impecabile sau c\u0103 a\u0219 avea vreo obsesie cu aspectul lor. Vorba mea este \u201de ma\u0219in\u0103, nu bibelou\u201d. Le sp\u0103l rar, iar dac\u0103 este vorba de capacele de la oglinzi, alea sunt consumabile. Dar manevra mi s-a p\u0103rut m\u0103g\u0103reasc\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103 am oprit ca s\u0103 studiez \u0219i eu un pic la ce se gandea doamna c\u00e2nd a for\u021bat banda. \u0218i ca s\u0103 v\u0103d, totu\u0219i, dac\u0103 nu a cr\u0103pat capacul de la oglind\u0103.<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 \u201d-\u00a0\u00a0 Sarut m\u00e2na, cum facem, mergem la poli\u021bie?<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 Cum, de ce?<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 P\u0103i \u0219ti\u021bi, a\u021bi for\u021bat banda \u0219i, poate nu a\u021bi observat, dar mi-a\u021bi lovit oglinda&#8230;<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 Nu, dvs. m-a\u021bi lovit pe mine. Era\u021bi \u00een spatele meu, a\u0219a c\u0103 dvs. m-a\u021bi lovit!\u201d<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Pe asta \u00eenc\u0103 nu o auzisem. Doar o mai citisem, pe internet. \u0218ti\u021bi vorba, povestea e frumoas\u0103, dar nimic nu se compar\u0103 cu experien\u021ba real\u0103, autentic\u0103. Pentru a nu exista confuzii, clarific: eram, intr-adev\u0103r, vreo trei metri mai \u00een spate, dar pe alt\u0103 band\u0103. \u0218i doamna a fost cea care a intrat pe banda mea. Cei care m\u0103 cunosc \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu puteam rata ocazia&#8230;<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 \u201d-\u00a0\u00a0 Doamn\u0103, uita\u021bi cum proced\u0103m. L\u0103sa\u021bi-mi mie permisul \u0219i \u00eel predau eu la o sec\u021bie de poli\u021bie, ca s\u0103 nu mai bate\u021bi drumul p\u00e2n\u0103 acolo. C\u0103 e clar ca nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie \u00een posesia dumneavoastr\u0103.\u201d<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Se d\u0103 jos din ma\u0219in\u0103, indignat\u0103.<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 \u201d-\u00a0\u00a0 Acuma crede\u021bi c\u0103, dac\u0103 sunt femeie, m\u0103 pute\u021bi lua a\u0219a?\u201d<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 \u0218antaj feminist, a\u0219adar, la intimidare. Poart\u0103-te cu m\u0103nu\u0219i, c\u0103 sunt femeie. Eventual mai trece cu vederea c\u0103 vorbesc prostii. Treaba este c\u0103 eu nu pomenisem nimic de faptul c\u0103 ar fi femeie, b\u0103rbat, avion sau tramvai. \u0218i i-am \u0219i spus asta. I-am mai spus \u0219i c\u0103 ea este cea care a adus subiectul \u00een discu\u021bie, ceea ce nu este ok. Dac\u0103 te ascunzi dup\u0103 deget invoc\u00e2nd c\u0103 e\u0219ti femeie ca s\u0103 acoperi ce prostii spui, nu este s\u0103n\u0103tos, mai ales pentru tine. \u0218i discu\u021bia a continuat&#8230;<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 \u201d-\u00a0\u00a0 Doamn\u0103, s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi totu\u021bi c\u0103 liniile astea de pe asfalt nu sunt orientative. C\u00e2nd schimba\u021bi banda trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 asigura\u021bi.<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 M-am asigurat, nu v-am v\u0103zut&#8230;<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 Atunci v\u0103 rog s\u0103 fi\u021bi mai atent\u0103.<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0 Sunt atent\u0103 . M-am uitat \u00een oglind\u0103, nu era\u021bi acolo.\u201d<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Aici am \u00eencheiat discu\u021bia \u0219i am plecat. Dup\u0103 ce i-am spus c\u0103 nu aveam, totu\u0219i, cum s\u0103 pic din cer sau sa m\u0103 materializez ca \u00een Star Trek.<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 Eu \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i cunosc starea de nervozitate pe care \u021bi-o d\u0103 un incident \u00een trafic. Mai \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i faptul c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti agitat, mai spui \u0219i prostii. Spui prostii c\u00e2teodat\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu e\u0219ti agitat. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Dar s\u0103 persi\u0219ti, asta e dint-o alt\u0103 categorie. Eu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd dai cu b\u00e2ta-n balt\u0103, nu e ok s\u0103 ai \u0219i gura mare. \u00ce\u021bi pui cenu\u0219\u0103 \u00een cap \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi asumi. Dar am observat la mul\u021bi oameni c\u0103, pentru ei, este esen\u021bial ca, atunci c\u00e2nd au f\u0103cut o prostie, s\u0103 arunce vina c\u00e2t mai departe de ei. S\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 un alibi, o circumstan\u021b\u0103 atenuant\u0103, un \u021bap isp\u0103\u0219itor, orice. Nu e ok. Dac\u0103 nu ne recunoa\u0219tem \u0219i nu ne asum\u0103m gre\u0219elile, le vom repeta cu siguran\u021b\u0103.<\/div><div>\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00e2t despre \u0219antajul feminist, adic\u0103 s\u0103 sco\u021bi la \u00eenaintare faptul c\u0103 e\u0219ti femeie ca s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi acoperi vreo gre\u0219eal\u0103, v\u0103 rog, fetelor, nu \u00eel folosi\u021bi. Este pe at\u00e2t de penibil pe c\u00e2t este de josnic.<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Am avut ast\u0103zi de diminea\u021b\u0103 un mic incident \u00een trafic cu o doamn\u0103. \u00cen discu\u021bia ce a urmat a avut cel pu\u021bin dou\u0103 replici la care era s\u0103 \u00eemi \u00eenghit masca, a\u0219a c\u0103 m-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 v\u0103 povestesc toat\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplarea. \u00a0\u00a0 Mergeam eu lini\u0219tit spre facultate, cu reveria aceea a dimine\u021bii, c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 nu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":762,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[6],"tags":[31,30,32],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/andreimario.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/femeie-volan-scaled.jpg","yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v15.2.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Cum incercam sa ne disculpam cu orice pret, indiferent de ce prostie am facut. 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